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How to Make your man loves only you

Getting a guy to be with you in a relationship is one thing, but knowing how to make him fall in love is a different thing.

Now, if you are not sure how to make your boyfriend fall in love with you, just follow the tips below and you might soon get the desired results.

1. Be his friend.


A man appreciates a close friend he can confide in and count on no matter what happens, someone, he can share his thoughts and feelings with, someone who will always be there and will listen to him without judgment or condemnation. Be that friend to him. Be his confidant. Be careful though, not to mother him. Give him room to breathe. Be available but not desperate. When he asks you out, make out time. Pick up his phone calls, and reply to his messages as soon as you receive them. Let him be able to reach out to you when he needs you. So be there for him; he melts for you even more when he feels that you care. And yes, admit when you’re wrong and be willing to forgive when he’s wrong.

2. Be affectionate-Give him a physical touch.



Physical touch is the most important part of love. Your touch would be incredibly exciting for the guy you love. Give him tight and long-lasting hugs, passionate kisses, or hold his hands in public. This will not only make your guy happier and feel loved, but it will also lower his anxiety, improve his mood, and relieve his stress.

Be generous and consistent with your hugs and gentle touches. When we talk about hugs here we mean you should give him the best Hug. One thing for sure is that Tight and intimate hugs plant the right ideas in a man. He begins to want the woman to wonder what treasures lie ahead as he gets closer to her heart.
Tell him, “I love you” often and take the time to tell him why you love him, why he means so much to you, and why your life would be empty without him. Initiate your affection. Make him feel wanted and needed. Surprise him always; like a sudden kiss on his cheek. Don’t forget to smile sincerely in front of him. When a woman smiles and shows warmth in front of a man, it encourages him to dig a little deeper


3. Accept him for who he is.


Let him know you have no desire to try to change him and that your goal is not to “make him a better person.” You like him the way he is. Make it clear to him that he’s your Prince Charming, Mr. Handsome, Mr. Right, your do or die, Your happiness. Don’t compare him to other men, especially in a way that makes him feel like he doesn’t measure up, that he’s not good enough. So single him out.

4. Be his encourager/Motivation


Every man needs and wants encouragement. It’s especially meaningful when he’s facing challenges or is having a rough day or week. Little things, done on a regular basis, can mean the world to him, like writing a thoughtful note and putting it on his bathroom mirror, taking him to a movie he really wants to see, preparing his favorite meal and sending to his office or a lovely message with an inspirational quote or thought, or buying a magazine dealing with topics he enjoys and having it on the table when he sits down for breakfast….little things that tell him you’re thinking of him and that you’re in his corner and always will be. Buy him a nice gift, and do something that shows you also got a game. Men love women who can match their charm.

5. Respect him.


Over time, it has been proven that men regard respect from women as love. One of the most important things you can do is convey to him that you respect him, and that you hold him in high regard. Let him know you appreciate his wisdom in making decisions, and whatever you don’t go behind his back and undermine the things he does or what he decides. The most important thing to understand about men is that they value being respected more than they value feeling loved. Sounds quite crazy, right? Isn’t love the most important thing?! Yes, love is incredibly important but to men, Respect is everything.
Don’t try to manipulate him into doing or thinking what you might think is best. If you disagree with any of his decisions, sit down and talk with him about it in an objective manner, meaning you should gently correct him. Don’t try to persuade, just share your opinion or idea and allow him to assemble it.

6. Keep a record of good times together.


One of the ways a man feels loved is by letting him know you’ve thoroughly enjoyed the good times the two of you have had together. Take the time to verbally reminisce with him. Maybe keep photos of the special moments you’ve had together, perhaps in a photo album or on your phone and/or computer. Set aside times when you can sit down with him and look at the photos and talk about the special moment you’ve had together. Tell him how special those moments made you feel and how he has contributed to your happiness.

7. Sincerely compliment him.


Be alert to the things he does, large or small, that you appreciate and then compliment him. Build him up and make him feel special. Focus on his strengths. He’s a man and he wants to be viewed as a man and your compliments can help with that. Let him know  how proud you are to have him and that you appreciate the good qualities you see in him.

8. Share his interests.


Take the time to talk with him about his interests, even the seemingly insignificant ones, and determine which ones you might be able to enjoy with him. Some of them may not be your “cup of tea” but just being willing to participate with him will make him feel special. Surprise him with little gifts or gift cards that he can use to help him enjoy his interests.

Believe in him. One way to win his heart is to really believe in him, even when others might not, and especially when he’s struggling with his own self-doubts. Even if he has had some setbacks or failures or has made some unwise decisions, let him know that you believe in him and trust the fact that he has the ability to make good decisions. Be willing to sacrifice and work hard to help him accomplish his goals and fulfill his dreams and do it with a positive, “never give up” attitude.


9.Be yourself.



Take your mask off and let him know that you accept yourself as you are. Your boyfriend wouldn’t want to see the fake you. Besides if you do end up with that person for the rest of your life, he’ll eventually going to see the real you. So, if you want him to stay madly in love with you, be yourself right from the start. Your authenticity breeds deep intimacy, which is something both guys and girls crave.

That is; Try to be the best version of yourself.

Being true to yourself will make your boyfriend fall for you because of your honesty and humility in accepting your flaws. It will also give him the confidence he needs to trust you. However, if you want him to constantly fall in love with you now and forever, don’t just be contented with being who you currently are, especially if you have negative habits and attitudes that might exhaust your patience in the future. Instead, show him that you are making efforts to grow as a person for your boyfriend and for your relationship.

If he loves you, he will surely accept you for who you really are despite your flaws and differences. However, if you want him to love you more and make your relationship last longer, strive to make yourself truly better. It will definitely make your boyfriend realize that you are not just thinking for yourself, but you are also thinking for him and the future of your relationship.


10. Encourage his spirituality.


There’s a tendency for a man to feel like he should be strong and independent and rely on himself, that it’s a sign of weakness to depend on anyone else or to let God be in control. Sometimes it’s difficult for him to express what he believes spiritually. Give him the freedom to travel his own unique spiritual journey and let him know you accept and support him wherever he is along the pathway. Be patient. Be an example. And be supportive.

Ref: Charles Lee


11.Make yourself look beautiful.



Looking your best will give him the attention that you need to make him fall in love with you. Most guys act on what they see. So, be aware of what you’re wearing, whether your hair is nice or dry, and if you are dressed appropriately. Just do your best to look as good as you can, no matter where you’re going. Your guy will definitely love you for that.

That is; Look good for him. Men are visual beings, and the first time a man looks at is a well-dressed and classic lady. Highlight what is unique to you. Dress appropriately for your body. Smell good too as well. Looking good will pull him towards you, and smelling good will excite him.


 In a nutshell, Just love him.

Last but not the least, just love him from the bottom of your heart. Love naturally attracts love. So no matter what you do to make him fall in love with you, you can never succeed if you don’t fall in love with him first. You don’t have to expect your boyfriend to fall in love with you in return. So just give your pure and tender love to him and it will naturally trigger his hidden or unreleased love for you.

Remember that you don’t have to be perfect to be the best version of yourself and make him fall in love with you. You don’t also need to compete with other girls to catch your boyfriend’s love and attention. What you need to do is to compete with yourself  so you will grow as a person so you will grow the love you are giving to him; so he will naturally fall in love with you more without expecting it;  and so your love and  relationshionship becomes happier and stronger.


What do you think?

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Written by Gracious Berinyu

Journalist at CMTV Buea, Cameroon; Chief Marketing Office at C. Media Group of Companies

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