Do you often feel you are not handsome?

Do you keep thinking that you don’t look good enough?

I mean; after putting on an amazing outfit, ready to step out on a date and just a glance at the mirror changes your mode completely, you think you are unattractive, that girl won’t like me. You are not alone… this article, I will give you several ways to navigate through this mindset and prove how attractive you are. Yes, it’s time for you to stop… stop looking down on yourself, stop thinking that you don’t look good enough to be liked or loved. You have to stop succumbing to the mindset that you aren’t physically attractive. You are. You have to stop believing that you are never going to find a person who is going to want to fall in love with you because you’re ugly. You’re not ugly. You are beautiful, you are handsome. All of us are beautiful in our own unique ways. Sure. You are flawed. But we all are. We all have our share of imperfections and blemishes. We all stumble occasionally. Yes. We all have our ugly moments. But you should always be optimistic and think positively.

Occasionally all people are prone to doubts about their attractiveness. At these moments, they start to search for flaws in themselves. Sometimes it can be useful because it leads to self-development. But, very often constructive self-criticism can grow into a destructive self-reproach that might disturb leading a happy and full life.

It’s for these people who are currently going through this difficult life period that we prepared this article where we are offering you a chance to learn some subtle psychological nuances in our behavior that directly or indirectly show that you are more attractive than you think.


1. You have a good sense of humor
Humor is an important skill and can often be a great coping mechanism.
If you’re funny, then people will naturally want to be around you because they know that they’ll be able to laugh at the crazy things that come out of your mouth and that their conversations will be entertaining.
A good sense of humor is not something everyone has, and it’s yet another sign that you’re more attractive than you think.


2. You’re an optimist

Being an optimist is a great trait to have. But, on the other hand, no one enjoys being around someone continually perpetuating doom and gloom and radiating bad vibes.
As an optimist, you always think positively and try to see the bright side of things. So when things go wrong, you don’t seek to blame; instead, you find a solution.
Most people don’t have this trait, but if you do, it will make you attractive to others.


3. You’re a good listener

It’s often said that listening is the best form of flattery, and people who are good listeners tend to have more friends than those who aren’t, so they’re better liked by others.
Listening also helps you learn about someone else’s interests and values, which can help develop trust with them and make your relationship stronger.
However, it’s not enough to just sit there and listen.
If you want to create a meaningful conversation with someone who is struggling, then you need to ask questions that will help them open up about what they’re going through.
When you listen attentively, you allow others to feel comfortable while talking and show that you care.
When someone feels like their voice is being heard, it allows them to share what’s on their mind or how they are feeling without any judgment.
You’ll also be able to understand better why people think or do things in specific ways because of your ability to hear them out with an open heart and mind instead of getting caught up in judgments about who is right and wrong.
And, in my opinion, it is a huge underrated sign of being attractive.


4. You’re not judgmental

Judgmental people are annoying.
It’s hard not to get annoyed because they always have to put someone else down.
If you’re not judgmental, it means that you’ll be able to accept people for who they are, and you won’t try to change them into something that they’re not.
Not judging is one of the essential qualities in a person, which allows us all opportunities for growth and self-improvement.
Nobody wants to hang out with a constant Judge Judy, and if you’re open-minded and easy-going, it naturally makes you that much more attractive.
It’s not always possible to avoid someone who has an annoying personality or is constantly judging others but being able to laugh at yourself can be a way of defusing the situation.


5. You smile a lot

Smiling is contagious.
When you smile, you immediately allow those around you to feel comfortable, and they’ll want to spend time with you because they know that you’re the most attractive person in the room.
People are attracted to those that make them feel good, and you can do that by simply smiling.
Smiling isn’t just a facial expression, it’s a state of mind. When you smile, you’ll feel better about yourself and, therefore, more attractive. This is something that everyone should practice.
A smile shows people you’re caring, warm, and down to earth. Who wouldn’t be attracted to that?


6. You’re humble

Humble people are always very attractive.
They don’t try to put on airs and graces to make others think they’re superior because they have a deep sense of self-worth.
They respect everyone for who they are and aren’t afraid of admitting when they’re wrong or when someone is better than them.
If you know how to be humble, people will like it and want to spend time with you because they know that you’re a good person.


7. People Smile When They See You

It’s much more common for someone to smile at a stranger they find attractive than someone they don’t.
If you happen to notice that you get a friendly smile from most people you pass by on the street, chances are, they find you attractive.
We tend to subconsciously smile at things or people that are aesthetically pleasing.
Giving a quick smile can be a way of flirting, but more often than not, it’s just a natural reaction to something that is pleasing to the eye.
Strangers Stare At You

Anyone would feel self-conscious if they were aware of strangers staring at them in public, but if it happens to you a lot, you might be more attractive than you realize.
When someone we like or find attractive walks into a room, we’re usually not able to avert our gaze from them. Their presence demands attention, and someone who can turn heads that easily must be attractive.
If you find yourself with all eyes on you, it might just be you. Di People Seem To Enjoy Talking To You?do others always come up to you and start conversations regardless of where you are or what you’re doing?
If so, it’s probably because you’re easy on the eyes.
It may not seem fair, but those deemed more attractive are treated better than those who are ‘average-looking’ and they get more positive attention.
Attractive people have a sort of pull that draws others in.
It might not always be a romantic thing; it could just be because of how symmetrical your face is or how well put together you are.
Simply put, we enjoy engaging with attractive individuals more than others.


8. People Raise Their Eyebrows When They See You

When someone raises their eyebrows, it usually means they are either surprised or caught off guard.
If someone looks at you and subconsciously raises their eyebrows, it’s another sign that they might find you attractive.
Like smiling, raising your eyebrows is a natural reaction conducted by your brain; it can be done consciously, but it usually isn’t.
So, if you catch someone doing this when they see you, it’s likely because they find you good-looking. People Often Do A Double Take
Most of us do a double-take when we come across someone rather appealing. Of course, there can
be many different reasons why we do this, but the most common one is that we liked what we saw and wanted to keep looking.
If someone gives you a second glance, it means they find you attractive and might be looking to catch your attention.
If this happens to you often, you’re almost certainly a good-looking person.


9. you’re confident.

Confidence is something that everyone wants, but few know how to use it to their advantage.
If you have confidence, others will naturally gravitate towards you because they know they can trust you with their secrets and have safe conversations. After all, your faith won’t waver in any situation.
Confidence is a critical factor to success in all aspects of life, whether it’s business or personal relationships, the more confident someone is about themselves and what they can achieve, the better chances for them to succeed.
Knowing that you can stand your ground and can handle anything that comes your way makes you that much more attractive as a person.


10. Your friends love to hang out with you

People enjoy spending time in your company because you’re a blast to have around.
Another tell-tale sign that you’re more attractive than you think is having a group of friends who clammer to hang out with you.
You are likely an interesting person. People want to be around someone like that, so they naturally gravitate toward being close or friendly with the individual who has this quality about them.
You can also get away with not caring what other people think if it means getting closer and enjoying their company as well
Your kind, fun-loving nature is contagious, and they’re keen for it to rub off on them.


11. You make people feel comfortable around you

As the saying goes, people will forget what you say but will never forget how you make them feel.
Another sign of being attractive is making those around you feel comfortable. THere’s nothing worse than being around someone who’s continually looking down at you or is emanating bad vibes.
If people feel like they can be themselves around you, it’s a good indication that you’re a great person.


12. You’re not afraid of being yourself

It says a lot about your character when you can be your true authentic self around others.
People will naturally gravitate towards you because they know that they can trust you with their secrets and have safe conversations with you.
You will also find that others will let their guard down, and the bonds you have with them will be more fulfilling.


13. You’re authentic

You’re not afraid to be yourself and show the world who you are.
You’re comfortable with your flaws, and you embrace them instead of trying to hide them.
People have a hard time hiding their true selves, so when they see someone confident in themselves, they will automatically be more attracted to that person
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Confident people are attractive because they know exactly who they are and what they want out of life, which is lovely in itself.
They don’t need to constantly seek validation from others because deep down, they already know themselves and what works for them.


14. You have your own unique personality. People do double-takes whenever you pass by them.

You have the kind of physical attractiveness that just demands a double-take. It’s not enough for people to look at you just once. You are so good-looking that people always feel like they need to look at you twice to gain a full appreciation for just how attractive you are. Never devalue double-takes in public. If you are getting them often, it’s because you have the kind of beauty that is just absolutely mesmerizing.


15. You are pretty focused on living a life for yourself that you can be proud of.

You know that you’re very attractive when you’re living a life for yourself that you can be proud of. You are free and you are living your life on your own terms. Because there is nothing more attractive than a girl or guy who is passionate about pursuing his/ her dreams.


Lastly, always stay positive and note that you are unique in your own way, let nobody tells you otherwise. I may have left other attributes of an attractive person, please do well to share them with me in the comment section. Also, If you like this article, like, share, and comment, and yes, from where this came, there is still more. Thanks for reading …Please share your thoughts with us in the comments.



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Written by Gracious Berinyu

Journalist at CMTV Buea, Cameroon; Chief Marketing Office at C. Media Group of Companies

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