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Are you in love with this cute girl and she is not giving you her time? You cannot seem to know if she is actually just busy with important activities or if she is not interested at all. Or You are catching a crush on this beautiful girl and you don’t know if she might blow hot and cold, and it confuses you?

Don’t border, I am here to help you navigate through, to help you read her if she is interested or not.

So, you are in love Or at least crushing on a hot girl. Either way, you just don’t seem to know if the feeling is mutual. They always say that it’s difficult to figure women out, but if you know how to read them, it’s not difficult at all. Not all girls drop hints or signs that she’s not interested, but if you know how to read them well, you’ll see the right signs in no time. So, let’s get to the point,


1. Her Replies to Your Texts Are Blunt

If you received your 11th “ok” or “yes text in a row from her, chances are she’s not reciprocating your feelings. If she was, the opposite would be true: she will be constantly updating you on mundane details about her day or idle gossip that barely involves you. And some of her OK and yes will be OK Dr, or OK bb, OK sweet, yes deary and others.

If she replies to your sensitive messages about the relationship too quick and blunt, it is a potential sign of her not being interested. Though this can vary, over the years, It has been proven that women tend to think through their responses in detail and brainstorm options in order to achieve the reaction they’re hoping for.

If she’s replying right away or double texting, it’s possible she sees you just as a friend. And yes, when she constantly forgets about things she told you about her, this could only mean, she was not interested and only told you lies for reasons she cannot recall. Again you need to know that, When you’re crushing on someone, you tend to text them intentionally, so if she’s replying with quick, bare-minimum responses, it’s not a good sign.

So , she is losing interest is her falling out of normal communication patterns: being more passive with texts and calls, being slow or often quick to respond, or just obviously breaking your established communication flow. You give her a series of calls but she doesn’t respond to any not now, not later. know that, she is generally giving off a vibe of ‘I’m not interested in anything that has to do with you.
If your missed calls are not returned for days, it should be a good situation to leave things up to her. If the conversation dies off completely as a result, you know for sure you weren’t her Prince Charming.


2. She Hasn’t Introduced You to Anyone in Her World

If you and your crush have been dating at least for weeks or months, but she’s weirdly evasive about letting you meet anyone in her world, she’s probably not quite as committed to the relationship as you are. Note that, introducing a partner to your friends and family is one of the most solid signs of commitment, and if she’s being passive in this area, it probably means she doesn’t see you as part of her future.

If she is a reluctance to introduce you to her friends and family is probably not a fatal sign very early in a relationship, but if you’ve been going steady for a while and it’s not even on the cards or if she’s reluctant to meet your friends and family it’s not a good sign.

If your worlds aren’t meshing at all, and she’s the one preventing it, then it’s probably time to look for a more committed partner elsewhere. Each time you invite her for a family dinner, she gives all sorts of excuses, or she accepts to show up and don’t finally do, she disrespects your parent by keeping them waiting with no words of.. babe am sorry I cannot make it on time or so. Just know that, it’s a blunt sign she is not interested in you at all.


3. She Avoids You for Days and Responds to You Intermittently

If the communication between you is always patchy and intermittent, it could be because she’s trying to fade you out, but wants to avoid looking heartless by ghosting you completely. If she gives a lukewarm response to every third message of yours, but you otherwise don’t hear from her at all, this could be what’s happening.
When asked about how she fades out guys she’s not interested. Maybe she just pities you and don’t want you to feel bad about her actions at all…so she just try her best to reply once in a while.

This is a difficult situation to deal with because it’s not as clear-cut because you don’t know if he is just busy with important things or not just interested. So at this point you leave things in her hands: stop texting her at all, and if she’s interested, she can reestablish the flow of conversation. If she doesn’t, you know the drill. In this case, Just stop calling or texting her completely and for sure if she was or is interested, she is going to come around. if not, just know she was never interested from the onset.


4. She Never Initiates Meetings Between You Two

If your crush is never the one to initiate plans between the two of you, this is a sign that she might not be as invested in the relationship as you are. Think about it: if she was really into you, whenever she wants to visit a gallery or check out a new movie, you will be her idle companion. If she is interested, you would constantly get her to say things like dr please let go out, please let’s have launch or dinner together, let’s go to the bench, and so on. But if she is not interested, she will never request all this because she does not care. Yes, this should be pretty clear that things aren’t going well.
Worse is when you offer her a ride to a fashion shop to pick anything of her choice and she starts making excuses like, am not free, I am busy. Noting that a woman may even try to redirect the conversation in a way that is more comfortable for her if she is interested but the time you are giving is not suitable, she could try rescheduling the time. But when she try to avoid making plans for a date that she knows she does not want to attend it shows she is not interested.

This might include her attempting to keep things platonic by saying something like “I’m happy as a single woman for right now.” Or, she might agree to the “date,” but say that she needs to leave at a certain time in an attempt to avoid any end-of-the-night flirtatiousness or other romantic spontaneity. My dr Stop wasting your time, she is not interested, you deserve better than a partner


6. She Keeps Reinforcing That You’re Just Friends

Another way a woman might signal that she’s not interested in dating you is by reinforcing that the relationship is strictly platonic. If she’s constantly stressing that it’s so nice “having you as a friend” or explicitly introducing you as “my friend, or calling you by your name,” then she’s trying to tell you something …that you are not her boyfriend and never will be.
It’s important that you don’t throw a tantrum about being put in the “friend zone”: Friendship is, after all, a precious gift, and you should be grateful that she’s offering you that much. Insisting that she owes you anything more than friendship is pure entitlement, and may land you with no relationship with her at all.
If you don’t think you can handle just being friends with your crush, then you should make a clean break instead of lingering in the background, hoping she’ll change her mind. This will only lead to resentment when she eventually moves on to another relationship, so either graciously accept the friendship, or move on entirely.


7. She Avoids Physical Contact

A key sign that two people are romantically involved is constant touching: Resting hands on each other’s legs, grazing backs of arms or even playfully hitting each other. If your crush isn’t doing any of these things, and if her body language is stiff and unapproachable, then she’s probably showing you subliminally that she’s not interested in you.
This is definitely an area where you don’t want to force things as unwanted physical contact is creepy, invasive, and potentially criminal. so leave the ball in her court on this one. If she wants to initiate physical contact she can, but if you’ve been seeing each other a while and she’s not just nervous or awkward, its absence is probably a sign that she’s not into you. She doesn’t get close to you and avoids physical contact
If you guys go out to a sports bar and sit at a table, she will sit across from you, not beside you. And she won’t playfully touch your arm or maybe not even hug you. She doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea.



8. She doesn’t give you firm answers about whether you can get together

If you try to make plans with her, she says vague things like, “Sounds fun” If she’s not saying things like, “Great, I LOVE IT. What day and time should we go” then it’s one of the signs that she’s not interested and may even disappoint on you in the last minute.
To conclude, there’s nothing worse than really liking someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you, and if one or more of the above signs are cropping up for you, you’re probably feeling pretty dejected right now. However, if you’re still unsure about whether or not she has romantic feelings for you, Just be sure to honor her response, whatever it may be.

In the end, it’s ultimately healthier to call off a relationship that’s only limping along with one party’s active involvement, so if you think that’s what’s happening in your situation, do the brave thing and move on. When you eventually meet someone who is as enthusiastic about you as you are them and you will you’ll be glad you didn’t keep wasting your time.


What do you think?

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Written by Gracious Berinyu

Journalist at CMTV Buea, Cameroon; Chief Marketing Office at C. Media Group of Companies

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